Jason VanRuler

Licensed Therapist. Author. Speaker.

Untangle What’s Complicated.

So You Can Live and Love With Integrity

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When Life Looks Fine On The Outside

But Feels Off On The Inside

You can be successful and still feel disconnected. Faithful and still feel stuck.
Driven and still feel unsure why the same struggles keep showing up.

Most people don’t need a new life. They need a truer one.

Old patterns don’t disappear just because we want them to. They surface under pressure—in marriage, leadership, stress, and transition.

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“We were absolutely amazed with Jason’s approach. We have been to so many therapists that just didn’t get it. Jason did more work in one session than we got in MONTHS with any other therapist.”

“Simply put, Jason has been a game changer in my life. I’ve never played so well or been so focused. He’s been amazing with athletes and a well kept secret.”

“We just got home from our marriage intensive and both agree it was one of the most impactful weekends of our entire lives. We cannot recommend it enough.”

“Jason’s “Same Team Retreat” was outstanding. This was not the typical boring, stuffy retreat. The morning flew by and we learned so much about each other and ourselves. We will definitely use the tools he gave us to better our marriage.”

Meet Jason VanRuler

Jason is a licensed therapist, author, and speaker who helps people heal what holds them back so they can lead, love, and live with integrity.

His work blends psychology, faith, and practical tools for change—without shame, clichés, or quick fixes.

Jason is the author of Get Past Your Past and Discovering Your Communication Type, and his work has been featured in national media. He speaks to leaders, couples, and organizations who want more than insight—they want transformation that lasts.

This work is honest. It’s hopeful. And it’s deeply human.

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Three Ways to Work Together

Therapy

Focused. Intentional. Limited.

Jason maintains a small therapy caseload for men, leaders, and couples who want depth, clarity, and meaningful growth. This is not surface-level work. Availability is limited by design.

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Intensives

Momentum, Not Months of Waiting

Some seasons don’t need weekly sessions. They need focus. Intensives are for individuals and couples who want clarity and measurable progress in a concentrated format (1-3 days).

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Speaking

Conversations That Change the Room.

ason speaks to organizations, teams, and leaders who want better communication, stronger culture, and integrity under pressure. Practical, engaging, and immediately usable.

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What Makes This Work Different

This isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about becoming more integrated.

YOU WON’T FIND

Shame-based motivation

Endless processing with no direction

One-size-fits-all answers

YOU WILL FIND

  • Trauma-informed, relationship-centered work
  • Practical tools for communication
  • Faith-compatible wisdom without pressure
  • A clear path forward

YOU WON’T FIND

Shame-based motivation

Endless processing with no direction

One-size-fits-all answers

YOU WILL FIND

  • Trauma-informed, relationship-centered work
  • Practical tools for communication
  • Faith-compatible wisdom without pressure
  • A clear path forward

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If you’re ready for clarity, growth, and deeper connection, the next step is simple. Get in touch and let me know how I can help you.

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